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Swingers: Need to Know

I have been invited to be in a swingers club with a party taking place at the Vanilla Alternative in St Neots, Cambridgeshire, but to this date, it hasn’t happened and never will. That’s just not my scene. Having said that, what you do with your sex life, that’s totally your call to make and you shouldn’t be judged if that’s your scene. But let’s talk about a few things. Keep in mind, I am not a swinger, I have just been researching it for this time with you.

Things To Do:

Make very very sure that your partner is on the same place with you, if there is one. Don’t just come in one day and declare it, talk with him or her about it, think it through, and sleep on it, by all means. This is a very serious thing to embark upon and should be treated as such. This relationship’s swinging experience will only work if both of you are into it. If you start it and one isn’t into it, stop immediately and go home where you can regroup. It could be that it just isn’t for your relationship. Continue reading Swingers: Need to Know

Sex contact swingers find a home

My husband and I used to be swingers in the last town we lived in.  We were always around another friends house with a group of like minded swingers having a hell of a time.  Dogging was never for us.  All that out in the fresh air nonsense is totally unnecessary when you can go to someone’s house where it’s nice and warm.  We have since moved house and we’ve been forced to go through other avenues to set something up again.

Once I’d got the internet set up again in the new house, when my husband was out at work I figured I’d surprise him by trying to set something up as soon as possible.  I found this UK sex contacts site and found a number of other swingers in the area.  I even found a swinger party on that evening and was formally invited to come along and bring my husband.  It turned out that it was only just a few streets away, so I accepted the invitation and got myself ready for my husband when he came home from work.

When I answered the door to him I had on a tiny black, lacy dress, some hold up stockings and pair of stripper heels that he loved.

“Is my luck in?” He asked

“More than you know,” I replied, “now get yourself ready quickly, we’re going out.”

“Where too?” he asked

I waved him away, as I often do when I get in one of my dominating moods and as soon as he was ready we got a cab to the place a few streets away.  The cab driver was very interested in my stocking tops and I could see that this was already turning my husband on.  When we arrived I could see that it was quite a big house, and I could see people going in the front door.  Some of them had bottles of wine with them.  It looked like a dinner party more than anything else.

“Why the hell are we?” Asked my man, a little confused.

“We’re at a party, we’ve been invited,” I said excitedly

“But we hardly know anyone!” He protested.

“Wait and see,” I said, as I led him up the path.

We were greeted by a man at the door who checked me out really well before we were let in.  I think by this time my husband was beginning to realise what sort of a place we’d come to, simply because we’d been to them before.  Sure enough, when we entered the whole place was becoming a little more like an orgy.  People had started to take off their clothes and there were already a few naughty sex acts going on in the corner of the room here and there, and people walking off to other areas of the house hand in hand.  I turned to my husband and smiled.

“Happy now?”  I asked with a smile, “surprise!”

“Yes I am,” he said, “let’s have a look around.”

Experienced swingers reveal all about their hot swinger dates

My husband and I have been swingers for longer than we can remember.  We’re not getting any younger you see.  We have so much experience of it however that it had almost become a little boring circulating in the same gatherings all the time with the same people.  You see, to us swinging meant meeting new people and having new sex and experiences and when you’re in a swingers group with a load of others who you’ve known for a while it begins to get a bit the same; almost like your married to them too!  This is why we decided to look at UK sex contacts to see if we could mix it up a little.

We had a wonderful first experience with this website and we now meet loads of new people every month.  We’re both retired now, but it doesn’t seem to stop us or even slow us down, and you’d be amazed at how many young couples out there that want to experiment with an older, more experienced pair.  We even see single guys and girls too who get in touch with us; we’re not choosy really, we just want to have fun like when we first started to swing.

Now because we meet all these new people we’re able to revitalise our own sex lives, but also those of our previous swingers club.  You see, because some of these people are our lifelong friends we still go along to have some fun, and now we’ve had so many new experiences we’re able to share them with our old friends at the club; a couple of them have even gone off and signed up on UK sex contacts website now they know how good they are.

What we’ve realised out of the whole sex contacts experience is that you’re never too old to try out something new and meet new people.  Age doesn’t seem to make a bit of difference these days and to be perfectly honest my husband and I never thought we’d see the day.  Now when we meet up with new people we can sometimes be twice their age or even more; this is absolutely wonderful.  If we were intending to chat someone of this age up in a bar it would be nearly impossible, but because the meeting bit is all out the way and everyone knows that there is going to be sex involved it’s as though inhibitions are thrown out the window and everyone falls into place with their desires.  This is how we were meant to live and be with others in our opinion.