There is absolutely nothing there to stop you having a good time sexually. There, it’s time someone said it. If you’re in a loveless marriage then get out of it and have some fun, you only live once you know and there are so many other things to enjoy. I offer this advice to you because I’ve suffered at the hands of fate and have since realised that I need to have a lot more fun than I was having. My wife of 15 years left me last year and to be perfectly honest I think it’s the best things she’s ever done for me. I didn’t do anything wrong apparently, we just drifted apart. I can see what she means actually, and I’m so glad she made the move. We speak often and get along very well as friends now.
I’m quite a sexual person and I have to admit if there was anything I missed about my marriage it was the sex. My wife was always pretty good in this department and I never had any reason to complain, however, since I’ve been single I’ve never had so much fun. I joined a UK sex contacts website to meet other people like me and to basically see what it was all about. I’ve never joined anything like this before; in fact I don’t think I’ve ever joined anything before to be perfectly honest!
This sex contacts site opened my eyes to a world of possibilities. At first I thought it would be populated primarily with hookers trying to charge me for sex once I meet them, but it really isn’t. I never dreamed there would be so many women out there looking for casual sex; I thought this was a man’s game to be honest.
The first woman I met was in her 40s and she was so hot I couldn’t believe my luck. When I was single before I’d have been lucky if a woman like this had even looked at me; I mean, to me this woman was grade A and I actually didn’t expect her to go through with it. However, it turned out that she really went for my type. I suppose I never had the confidence to realise that I was someone’s type, and if that certain someone happened to be very hot indeed then it’s all good. There is no accounting for taste, so they say. Suffice to say she was certainly my type!
We met in the lobby of a hotel in the city and decided to have a couple of drinks. She never even mentioned the sex part of it during our drinks, and I don’t think at that time she really realised I was a first timer at this. When we finished our drinks she simply stood and said: “shall we go to the room now?” in such a matter of fact way that it shocked me. It was then that she realised how new I was to the whole sex contacts business. She was very good about it all and explained how things happen usually. I had a fantastic time and have since seen her probably 15 times now.
