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Horny plumber John on his recent experiences with horny single and married women

I’m a plumber and despite what everyone cares to think about plumbers getting to have their wicked way with horny housewives it’s not true.  I wish it was true because I’d have had a lot more action, but it’s not and that’s all there is to it.  However, I do get a lot of action from my UK sex contacts website.  I’ve been a member for over a year now and I’ve been persuaded to write down what I think of the whole thing to give you all a little insight from an old hand at it.

The whole thing is very easy to use, and this is what attracted me to it in the first place.  The site looked really good and I was going through a particularly rough patch, having just split up from my wife after 10 years of marriage (that’s a story of its own!)  I wanted a distraction and I needed to have sex, it’s as simple as that.  The site gave me everything it offered and more.  You think initially that it’s all going to be contacting through the site and paying money out all the time, but it really isn’t, and once you’ve met a couple of good sex contacts that you trust you can exchange contact information directly anyway.

The first few encounters were a bit weird to tell the truth, and to be perfectly honest I felt as though I should have paid the girls I met for sex!  I know that sounds awful but there you go.  Knowing what I know now about sex dating however, they probably thought exactly the same thing.  The thing you need to remember is that both of you are after the same thing; sex.  It’s simple once you get going!

Now I see quite a few different women on regular occasions and I’m so happy in my life that I couldn’t begin to describe it to you.  Women are wonderful, but they are placed firmly in their place with the sex dating.  They don’t bother your work, your social life or indeed anything else, and you only need to meet them for sex when you want to.  You obviously need to maintain a respectful relationship with them, but it’s not heavy like a real relationship.  To be honest with you, I don’t think I ever want another relationship as long as I live; I’ve got everything I need in my life at the moment and I’ve got it all just where I want it!

For anyone even considering sex dating I would say go for it.  What have you got to lose?  There are more women out there than you can possibly imagine and they all want to have sex with guys who feel the same way about relationships as I do.  One thing is for sure, you will not meet anyone who wants to tie you down (figuratively of course, you may actually want to be tied down physically!)

Sarah ended her two year sex drought by hooking up with casual guys for regular sex

 

I’ve been single for over two years now.  I find it hard to meet guys because I don’t have a very forgiving job and my friends are few and far between.  Before I hooked up with UK sex dating I didn’t get any action at all in the bedroom (or anywhere else!), but now I can get my kicks and still maintain my lifestyle and job the way I want and need to.  Personally I think that relationships are getting dated now anyway, and I’m not just saying that because I haven’t been in one for a while.  When you consider how much stuff we all have to do these days it’s a wonder we find any time at all to spend with a “partner”.  Why have one?

So the sex dating thing allows me this freedom and it allows me to have lots of fun when I want it.  There are no risks involved at all the way I see it.  If you’re going out on your own or with friends to meet people in a pub or club when there has clearly been alcohol involved, you’re asking for more trouble than you’re going to get from a guy you’ve checked out online, you’ve been chatting with for weeks, and who isn’t going to be drunk when he meets you!  This is a huge bonus believe me.  The amount of guys in the city at work who try to get me down the pub when we’ve finished and then subsequently try to get in my knickers is astonishing; they should be ashamed of themselves, not people who use sex dating!

Don’t get me wrong though, I’m not seeing a hundred different guys.  I only see a few select guys that I’ve been seeing for a long time now.  If one of them decides that he’s had enough or wants someone else then I’ll probably move onto someone new.  This happens all the time in the sex dating community and the beauty of it is, is that no-one gets annoyed or upset by this event.  We all know that there is another sex dater just around the corner waiting to meet you and that you’ve probably got a number of them on the go at the same time.  All I will add to this is that if you do anything unprotected then you’re an idiot.  I don’t know anyone who does this and I’ve met a lot of people in this community.

It really is the ultimate freedom and something that our parents wouldn’t have dreamed of being able to do!  This is the way the world is evolving and it’s about time everyone realised that you don’t have to be in a long lasting, tolerant and monogamous relationship to live your life.  You can get support from friends and family, and have your sex elsewhere; my belief is that you should keep them all very separate indeed!

Sex loving Jayne can not get enough of her casual encounters

When it comes to dating I’ve never had too much trouble to tell the truth.  And no, I’m not particularly modest either!  LOL!  However, I do suffer with one problem when it comes to dating.  Some guys take a hell of a long time to get me into bed and I want to have sex almost straight away.  I understand how it works though, and it pisses me off.  If I jump into bed with a guy on our first date I get labelled a slag; if he does it he gets a pat on the back however.  You just can’t run with these social boundaries these days!  So I decided to take a different angle on dating.  Sex dating.

My experience of picking up guys in pubs and clubs hasn’t been the best by any means.  I’ve usually been a little worse for wear and the guys have been even worse, and I’ve always regretted it in the morning.  With sex dating it’s completely different because you know that the only reason you’re meeting the guy is to have sex with him.  What you have to remember is to check out his profile real good online first.  I’m not talking about what he does for a living or anything else like that, I’m talking about his body and the way he looks; it’s all about good sex!

That’s all I really wanted out of online sex dating, and so far that’s all I’ve had.  Granted, I’ve had a few disappointments, but this happens anyway when you’re going out trying to get laid!  I usually arrange to meet my dates in a pub or a coffee shop or something like that.  This way it’s easier to run away if someone else turns up; not that this has happened to me, but you need to be safe.  The great thing about meeting is that all that old style dating is gone.  You don’t have to have someone wearing a particular colour flower or scarf or whatever! LOL!  Now you’ve already seen them online and hopefully chatted to them too.  You should have plenty to talk about before you get them in the bedroom.

I know, I’m awful aren’t I?  The true predatory female.  But this is what I want to do, and it’s what the guys seem to like too.  There’s nothing like putting yourself on the same level as the guys in this day and age; why should they have all the fun anyway.  Do yourself a favour and use them as though they were toys, because essentially they are!