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Sex Positions and Falling in Love

Have you ever given a minutes thought to how sex positions play roles on your intimacy with your partner? Probably not, most couples don’t, it is not something we plan like tomorrows dinner. Most of the time, sex is not a planned thing, we go with what feels good at the time. But, did you know that certain positions can actually help you fall in love? I bet you didn’t, I know I sure didn’t, not until recently anyway. I have been married for a very long time and my husband and I are in love, so why fix or improve on something that’s working, right? Let’s go through a few of these positions and see what we can learn together. Continue reading Sex Positions and Falling in Love

Dating Then and Now

I was researching for this article and I have to say that I learn something new every day! I wasn’t sure when “dating” actually ever started and I found out it was at the turn of the 20th century. Before that, it was more of a courtship and there really wasn’t much emotion involved at the time. It was far more private and personal and by all means never really talked about.

The Beginning of Dating

The turn of the 20th century seems to be the consensus of the time that dating game started. This was becoming more and more of a thing. Before this, the girls would have meetings with a few guys until Mom and Dad liked one of them and then they would set up a marriage for them. The final say had a lot to do with the guys financial status and their social lives. The more they had of these two things, the more apt that was to be the new son in law.

But then, and let me tell you, I cannot even fathom mom and dad having any of this, but the kids started going out more and more with the opposite sex, mostly in groups, without the parents. Marriage was still the end goal in the 20th century, but the parents were not as much in charge.

Procedures of Dating in the Early 20th Century

In as much as the dating craze was happening, there were still procedures that had to be done. If a young man wanted to date a girl, he had to do the proper thing and come calling. He came to call on her and if he was very lucky, the family liked him enough to invite him Continue reading Dating Then and Now

Young couple from Dudley, West Midlands with with a high sex drive

People think that because my boyfriend and I are young that we don’t have any problems.  Well, true enough, we don’t have that many, but we have come across a big one recently.  He wanted to see other people.  He said it was nothing to do with how our life was together, it’s just that he has a high sex drive and wants more of it.  I too love having sex, but I find that I can’t keep up with his desires and I certainly don’t have the same amount of time as he does!  I’m a student and he works part time in a bakery.  He’s as faithful as an old dog though and I know he doesn’t cheat on me, so I managed to find a solution in UK sex contacts.

I know it sounds like an unlikely choice, but I have to say that since we’ve been with these guys we’ve had no problems at all, and in fact my own sex drive has risen quite dramatically.  We are both very much in love and spend most of our free time together, but since we registered with UK sex contacts we’ve been meeting other people for sex!  It’s great because we meet people of all ages and all walks of life.  The other week we made out with a couple in their 50’s!  This is the oldest guy I’ve ever had sex with.  I’m only 20 years old, and I think the guy in his 50’s thought that Christmas had come early when he got hold of me.  My boyfriend learned a few things of the woman in her 50’s too!  When we got home, the next day we made out on our own and my boyfriend suddenly became a man during sex; it was incredible.  It was as though the woman he’d been screwing had told him how to do it properly.

It’s not just older couples we meet.  For my boyfriend’s birthday I agreed to meet a bi-sexual girl who wanted to meet couples.  He has never forgotten this experience and says it’s the best of his life.  He had one hell of a time watching me get it on with another girl (my first time) and then joining in himself; if it hadn’t been for all his extra training beforehand I don’t think he’d have coped with the action that presented itself to him!

So the sex dating thing is going really well now and I haven’t ever heard him ask to see other people.  Why would we need to do that now that we can see these people just for sex and also together!  Things couldn’t get much better at the moment, and it’s certainly a learning curve for us both sexually; we should be pretty damn good at it soon!