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Dogging Explained

I’ve got to admit, I am not from the UK, but I’ve been picking up on some of the slang that goes with it. One of the ones that really caught my attention was “dogging“. Of course in my head, I didn’t give it a lot of thought, I just assumed it was people walking their dogs and that was the fastest way to say it. “Hey honey, I am going dogging”. But boy was my face ever red when I realized that that isn’t the meaning of the word at all. It is a slang word in the UK for public sex. I guess that kind of makes sense, but I had to go digging and doing my research on it. Let’s see if we can clear this one up so the rest of the world knows what it is.

Origin

The term dogging actually started in the 1970s, so yes you young folks, it started probably before most of you were born, so it isn’t your invention here. You were not the first to go dogging. It actually started when men would spy on couples having sex outdoors. Once he had caught them the first time, he would “dog” their every move to try and catch them having sex outside again, as often as he could possibly catch them. The same thing can also be called voyeurism and exhibitionism. Continue reading Dogging Explained

UK Sex contacts: A Way of Life

It’s not all about meeting new people when you begin sex contacts.  When I joined up and started looking for sex contacts I slept with a lot of people, but now I only meet up with two.  This is enough for me and I don’t need any more than that.  Many people want to have as many as possible, but to me this defies the objective of the website.  You can be on there all the time if you like, seeing as many people as you can, but if you do this you might end up with a lot of first night unrewarding experiences.

I find that once I’ve found someone, I try to hang onto him as long as possible simply because I know that once he gets to know my body and what I like, the sex will be fantastic; I’ve never been wrong yet.  Those first time nervous sessions are rarely revelatory to me these days so I’d much rather just do them and get them out of the way.  This is why I often go for a nice person who I can get to know as well as screw.

Now, this does tend to freak out a few men I’ve met in the past and that’s why it’s taken me so long to find these two dependable guys I have.  I have them pretty much on tap when I want them and I love this feeling.  Don’t get me wrong, I know they came from a sex contacts website and you simply have to accept the fact that these guys will never be faithful to you or anyone else; but then that’s not what you want is it?  Otherwise you’d be on a regular dating site wouldn’t you?

The important part for me is getting the sex right.  I’ve had other lovers through the sex contacts that just haven’t been able to do it how I like it, and to be honest, I’ve been brutally honest with them.  I don’t believe in just not calling someone again and not telling them why; and in one particular case I had a guy come back to me for a one off to prove to me that he’d improved his technique.  He certainly had, let me tell you.  Sadly there wasn’t a space for him in my life at the time.

I like to keep them fresh however, so I do change them around a little now and again; but I will never be having sex with more than two guys at the same time, it’s just too much trouble trying to keep up.  They get dumped for a number of reasons, but mostly it’s because they become a little demanding and want to see me more often than I do them.  This is irritating and not what sex contacts should be like.  It’s a way of life for me and a big part of my social activity.

Crazy Kate the sex contact

I cannot stress this enough at the beginning of this little story; this is not a load of shite devised just to get you interested.  I actually did this and I am recommending UK sex contacts because it is seriously one of the best websites in the world!

I met this girl called Kate through the sex contacts and she is as wild as a crazy badger man!  I’ve had sex with her so many times in so many different places that I’m finding it hard to keep up.  If she does the same with the other guys she screws then she must have some energy I’ll tell you that.

When you first join up with this site you get the impression that all the UK sex contacts you’re likely to meet are quite reserved and private about what they do and they do it secretly and in secret places etc.  This is not true all the time, believe me!  Kate is fucking crazy and she’ll do anything once.  The first time I met her was at a bus stop of all places outside the place I was supposed to meet her.

She grabbed me by the arm before I could go into the bar and dragged me onto a bus.  We chatted a little, she explained to me that she didn’t have any money and didn’t want to go drinking anyway, so she thought it would be nice to go for a walk.  Considering it was November and it was 8.00pm I thought this was a little mad to be honest, and when I realised where we were heading it confirmed my suspicions that this girl was as mad as a hatter!

We got off the bus at the woods and she ran off into the darkness calling for me to follow her.  I was a little more than turned on to tell you the truth.  This was simply because I knew how dirty this girl could be from the conversations I’d had with her online.  However there was a little bit of something in the back of my mind thinking ‘what if she has arranged for someone to rob me when I go in there?’

I paid it no mind when I remembered that she was wearing a little skirt and no tights.  I imagined running my hands up those naked legs.  When I walked into the darkness I entered the wood and before too long came to a small clearing where the moon could just about shine through the trees.  There she was as naked as the day she was born, bending over a tree stump telling me to take her from behind.  What a girl!

I have to say to cut this short a little, this is how it is most of the time with Kate; she is absolutely mad and when she wants to screw she simply drags me off somewhere bizarre and we do it.  Thank heaven for the sex contacts!

Dave and his wife enjoyed threesomes and swinger sex with three different couples

My name is Dave and I’ve been married for a couple of years now.  My wife and I have a great sex life.  It’s always varied and I don’t seem to need anything else at all from her.  However, over the last couple of months I really wanted (not needed) to get something else involved in our sex life.  I have a pretty high sex drive and need to be doing it virtually all the time when I’m home from work.  I’m lucky that the wife does too; god knows what we’ll do when we decide to have kids!

Anyway, back to the story.  I mentioned it to the wife that I would like to get involved with some other people when we have sex.  At first she was really concerned and thought that I’d been having an affair or something, but when it came down to it she soon realised that she too wouldn’t mind experimenting a little; like she said “you only live once.”  So we decided to use an online UK sex contacts website.  We were amazed at the amount of people we saw on there, from all walks of life, all different ages etc.  What surprised us the most was that there were quite a number of other couples on the site who also wanted to spice things up a little in the bedroom.

It didn’t take us long to introduce ourselves to three different couples.  We were really lucky because my wife is really hot and anyone on that site would want to have sex with her; I did all the time!  We had a few single guys coming onto my wife, but she wouldn’t entertain them at all, she wanted to do this with me and another couple, they were the rules of engagement according to her.  UK sex contacts had an easy way of getting in touch with these three couples and before long we were chatting online and discussing fantasies and all kinds of other stuff.

We arranged to meet a couple who we both liked the look off.  The woman was really hot; not as hot as my wife, but hot in a different way.  She was older than my wife and looked as though she could teach me a thing or two about sex.  We met them in a pub and shared a drink before going back to their place.  Apparently they were old hands at this sex contacts business so they showed us the ropes and what was usual etiquette in meetings etc.  It wasn’t rocket science or anything.  The sex we had that night happened so easily and was so enjoyable that we’ve managed to stay in touch with the couple and still see them at least once a month for fun.  We’re so familiar with them now that we can even call each other up and put in requests about underwear and outfits etc.  It’s lots of fun and we would highly recommend it.

Paul tells all about his 3 experiences with female members from UK sex contacts

This is one hell of a tale!  I’ve never been so excited to tell anyone this story before.  I’ve been a member of a UK sex dating website for a few weeks now and I’ve been laid three times.  This is good for me.  It would usually take me around two years to get this much action on my own, generally because I’m a lazy git who never gets his arse off the sofa to go out and meet people.  As it happens I didn’t need to get my arse off the sofa because I could get all the action I needed by sitting completely still and comfortable on my sofa with the lap top.

The site put me in touch with these girls who all wanted to get laid.  Yes, you read it correctly, they all wanted to get laid above anything else!  They weren’t the slightest bit interested in me, what I did, what my aspirations in life were, or any of that claptrap; all they wanted was a good shag!  These girls have the brains of guys I reckon!  What more could you want?  I bet half the married men in the UK wish their wives were like this and didn’t bother them with the colour of the carpets etc!

To be brutally honest with you, I can’t even remember the name of the first girl I got laid with!  I know, it sounds bad doesn’t it?  However, I know that she’d be happy with that knowledge and she knows that if she wants a return visit she can contact me through the website anytime she likes.  Great isn’t it?  The last one I had was called Sarah and this was only a couple of nights ago.  I definitely be seeing her again.

Sarah was into some real kinky shit and I loved every minute of it.  The great thing about the sex dating website is that you can chat to the girl online for a while if you like before getting together; so I had a good idea what she was expecting and what she wanted to do on our sex date!  She was one of these bondage specialists or something; she’d been doing it for years with as many guys as she could find that would let her smack them around a little.  I didn’t mind as long as I got my way in the end; she agreed and a good night was had by us both (although I have to admit that I am a little sore around the rear end!)

As far as recommending it is concerned, I almost don’t want to because they’ll be more girls for me.  But when you see just how many girls are on these sites these days you’ll realise that they’re coming out of the kitchen guys because they all just want a good seeing to with no strings attached.