Every woman deserves to be eaten out by her partner. You can never be too old to learn how to properly provide pleasure to your beautiful partner. If you are not that confident in your oral capabilities, this article will help! It all really comes down to knowing the anatomy of your girl’s vagina and knowing when and how to use your tongue. If you want to eat someone out really well, here is a list of things you should know!
Anatomy is important…
How much do you know about the anatomy of the vagina? If you do not know what is where… that is where you should start! This is not something all schools teach their students, so there is a chance that you might know all of the essential parts of the vagina. It is important to know where her clitoral hood, clitoris, labia, and vagina are. There are three holes down there, and you need to be sure that you are focusing on the right one while pleasing the external bits as well.
Know where to push the focus!
Once you’ve learned more about anatomy, do you know which parts are the most important? Well, you need to focus on the clitoris, labia, and vagina the most! But that does not mean that the anus should not be touched. This all really depends on what your woman prefers. You should also learn more about the G-spot and A-spot.
- G-spot – this is found inside the wall of the vagina, near the front. It is very easy to find, as it is about 1.5 to 3 inches deep.
- A-spot – this can be found deep inside the anus, near the cervix on the upper part of the vaginal wall. It is recommended that you use toys to reach so far up!
Keep in mind that women can have multiple types of orgasms, and thus you need to learn more about your girl to know what she prefers and what her body responds to the most!
Teasing and foreplay
Going straight down is sometimes acceptable, but in most cases, you should work your way to the sweet spot. This means that you need to incorporate proper foreplay. Start with making out, kissing her neck, playing with her nipples, kissing and sucking different parts of her body as you slowly move down to her vagina. As you spread her legs wide open, kiss her thighs, hold her waist, and touch her on all her erogenous zones.
The clitoris is your friend
Most women are unable to cum from penetration alone; instead, they need additional clitoral stimulation. Once you are between her legs, you should locate her clit. This is the most important aspect! Her clitoris is what will make her cum, but that is not the only thing that you need to be paying attention to. Keep in mind that the clitoris is very sensitive, so do not go too hard or too fast. Start with light flat licking motions, or kiss her all over while petting her clit gently with your fingers.
Licking around the clitoris will stimulate all the naughty juices and keep her on her toes. It is a teasing technique that always works! Once the sensations have built up, start licking her clit, and focus on the areas you are licking as well as the pressure of your tongue. Start lightly and gradually increase the speed.
Of course, pay attention to her reactions and what she is telling you. It is always recommended to ask your girl if she likes what you are doing. Make her feel relaxed and comfortable, and listen to what she is telling you. Every girl is different, so you need to learn about your girl’s sweet spots and what better way to do that than to listen to her requests!
Sex toys can be fun
If your girl enjoys vibrations or suctions, you should consider purchasing sex toys. Today, there are millions of different sex toys designed to provide clitoral stimulation. A lot of them are made for G-spot stimulation as well, so finding sex toys that your girl likes should not be difficult! Of course, this is a purchase the two of you should make together.
Using toys can be fun, and it can lead to incredibly intense orgasms. With that said, you might also want to utilize lubricants. However, when using lubricant, you need to consider the type. Water-based lubricant is a good idea; it provides good lubrication and is easy to wash off. Silicone-based lubricants last longer and are more difficult to wash off, but they are perfect for those with severe vaginal dryness. However, always avoid oil-based lubricants for vaginal penetration, as they can cause yeast infections.
Involve other erogenous zones
Just because you are focusing on eating out your girl does not mean that you should not be focusing on other areas of your body. Women have a lot of sensitive areas, and every woman is different. Ask your girl what kind of stimulation she prefers, and switch it up from time to time. Focusing only on the clitoris can be rather boring, so do not forget to try out new and fun things from time to time.