Month: July 2019

Dating Then and Now

I was researching for this article and I have to say that I learn something new every day! I wasn’t sure when “dating” actually ever started and I found out it was at the turn of the 20th century. Before that, it was more of a courtship and there really wasn’t much emotion involved at the time. It was far more private and personal and by all means never really talked about.

The Beginning of Dating

The turn of the 20th century seems to be the consensus of the time that dating game started. This was becoming more and more of a thing. Before this, the girls would have meetings with a few guys until Mom and Dad liked one of them and then they would set up a marriage for them. The final say had a lot to do with the guys financial status and their social lives. The more they had of these two things, the more apt that was to be the new son in law.

But then, and let me tell you, I cannot even fathom mom and dad having any of this, but the kids started going out more and more with the opposite sex, mostly in groups, without the parents. Marriage was still the end goal in the 20th century, but the parents were not as much in charge.

Procedures of Dating in the Early 20th Century

In as much as the dating craze was happening, there were still procedures that had to be done. If a young man wanted to date a girl, he had to do the proper thing and come calling. He came to call on her and if he was very lucky, the family liked him enough to invite him Continue reading Dating Then and Now

Leicester milfs looking for sex

Leicester milf bent over the bed showing off her pussy and ass with her pink panties pulled down.

Being a MILF in Leicester can be very lonely especially when you have no man in the house to tend to ones womanly needs, I know I’m a single Mum, I may not be a MILF but like any single Mum I do crave for sex at the most inconvenient time and find myself wishing that a handsome stranger will knock on my door and make a move on me. Never happens though! Instead I have no choice but use sex contact sites like UK Sex Contacts to find myself a man who will perhaps visit me when I have some spare time and to be blunt give me a “good seeing to”. After I have had good sex I’m OK for a week or even two before I start wanting sex again and find myself getting frustrated. It’s the Continue reading Leicester milfs looking for sex

Swingers: Need to Know

I have been invited to be in a swingers club with a party taking place at the Vanilla Alternative in St Neots, Cambridgeshire, but to this date, it hasn’t happened and never will. That’s just not my scene. Having said that, what you do with your sex life, that’s totally your call to make and you shouldn’t be judged if that’s your scene. But let’s talk about a few things. Keep in mind, I am not a swinger, I have just been researching it for this time with you.

Things To Do:

Make very very sure that your partner is on the same place with you, if there is one. Don’t just come in one day and declare it, talk with him or her about it, think it through, and sleep on it, by all means. This is a very serious thing to embark upon and should be treated as such. This relationship’s swinging experience will only work if both of you are into it. If you start it and one isn’t into it, stop immediately and go home where you can regroup. It could be that it just isn’t for your relationship. Continue reading Swingers: Need to Know

Sex Chat Then and Now

Let’s talk about how sex chat has evolved for the past 20 years or so. And since I am about to age myself, yes, I was alive and well back then and had just started chatting online. It was at a time when it was all so very new and we wondered even if we were actually talking to another human being or some bot. So of course, we asked so many stupid questions that only a human could answer. It came to a point where it was either run with it or shut it off, either way, it was your choice and you had to believe or disbelieve. I mean, it wasn’t like we were in Oz or some other fantasy thing you watched on TV. This was real, I could feel my face, my hands, and so on. So here we are, we are taking it at it’s word so let’s move on from there. Let’s go over some of the various chat tools from then to now. And, remember to take a look at my Top 5 sex chat sites.

ChatRooms

I’d say back in about 93ish, I got one of my first Commodore Computer and I had no clue what I was going to do with it, so I tinkered with it and got to know it. Somewhere along the way, I heard about the internet, so I was off on that journey. Always being the curious one myself, I wanted to know all about it. I got all of the tools, rebuilt my computer, got me a dialup modem, which is creepy sounding to me now, and the phone lines. I was ready to go. Continue reading Sex Chat Then and Now

Dogging Explained

I’ve got to admit, I am not from the UK, but I’ve been picking up on some of the slang that goes with it. One of the ones that really caught my attention was “dogging“. Of course in my head, I didn’t give it a lot of thought, I just assumed it was people walking their dogs and that was the fastest way to say it. “Hey honey, I am going dogging”. But boy was my face ever red when I realized that that isn’t the meaning of the word at all. It is a slang word in the UK for public sex. I guess that kind of makes sense, but I had to go digging and doing my research on it. Let’s see if we can clear this one up so the rest of the world knows what it is.

Origin

The term dogging actually started in the 1970s, so yes you young folks, it started probably before most of you were born, so it isn’t your invention here. You were not the first to go dogging. It actually started when men would spy on couples having sex outdoors. Once he had caught them the first time, he would “dog” their every move to try and catch them having sex outside again, as often as he could possibly catch them. The same thing can also be called voyeurism and exhibitionism. Continue reading Dogging Explained