It’s not easy being a man! All the women I’ve ever met think that it’s not easy being a woman and that men have it perfectly easy all the time, but they’re so wrong. I don’t know if I have a confidence issue or what, but it just seems to me that all the other guys out there are better at relationships than me. I’ve never been able to hold one down for long, and it’s not because I’m unloveable or anything like that, it’s just that I like my own space a little too much.
I also lack a lot of charm when it comes to chatting up women; I’ve never been any good at it to be perfectly honest with you. Ever since I was in school I could never just walk up to a member of the opposite sex and begin talking like you see guys doing all the time these days in the pubs and clubs. I just didn’t have it in me, and still don’t. However, I do have needs and I need to get them seen to. This is why I’ve recently joined a UK sex dating website. Sex is an important part of my life that has suffered immensely due to my terrible trouble talking to women, but I’ve decided that I’m still going to get what I want, and what every man deserves to have.
So the other day I had my first sex contact and that’s what’s inspired me to write this down. She was amazing. I didn’t think that I could do it to be perfectly honest, but once I’d registered I found that the process was so easy I just did it. The girls on the site were all pretty good (there were a few rough ones yes). I met Francesca last Friday night at the pub and we hit it off straight away. The beauty of this meeting was that it wasn’t her first sex contact meeting and she was very relaxed. She asked me if I had a problem with the fact that she’d seen other men through this and I said no as long as she’d practiced safe sex. When she said that she never did anything unprotected I was put at ease immediately and excused myself to go to the toilet to get some condoms. It was liberating to say the least going to get condoms when I’d only just met a girl and had one drink. Knowing that you’re going to have sex is one hell of an ice-breaker let me tell you.
We ended up going to a nearby hotel. We split the bill down the middle which was nice, despite me offering to pay it all. What was wonderful about all this was that Francesca was probably the type of girl I’d go for anyway, if I ever had the balls to ask her out in the pub; but now I didn’t have to. We got it on almost immediately and had such a session I could hardly walk the next day. We’ll be seeing each other again pretty soon (hopefully!) and she said she liked me a lot.